Social Life
Marriage, 'Marming'
Marriages among the Raj Gonds, called ‘marming‘, are arranged between the parents, and regulated by the clan structure. Some marriage betrothals, ‘kaja kobre‘, are arranged while the girl is still a minor. Betrothal, ‘kaja‘, is an elaborate time-consuming process, often involving a go-between matchmaker. A bride and groom must not be the same phratry or clan, ‘pari‘. Marriage is exogamous. More often than not the boy’s and girl’s agreement is sought. The final wedding ceremony is a complicated and meaningful 4-day ritual, in which the bride becomes a member of the groom’s clan and phratry, and acquires the protection of his ancestors. Until a ‘marming‘ is arranged a person is not considered a mature adult, whose wife has joined his phatry, ‘pari‘. However there is also a less formal and unarranged marriage system called ‘paat‘ or ‘pisi wartwal‘, meaning ‘marriage by capture’. These are either love marriages or secondary marriages. ‘Paat‘ must also be between people of a different phratry or clan, ‘pari’ and be exogamous, but they do not necessarily involve a brideprice, ‘pari kapra‘. There are also ‘lamsare‘ marriages, where the boy comes to live in his bride’s house, because they have no sons – an uxorilocal marriage.
These photographs are all of the elaborate ‘kaja kobre‘, arranged marriage rituals, ‘marming‘.
Pradhans and Thotis performing epic myths
The Thotis and the Pradhans are two tribal groups of traditional musicians, minstrels and bards, who service the Raj Gonds. Traditionally they have memorised the mythical origins of the Raj Gond clans and the complex mythical stories about the creation of the world. They have a similar clan structure and perform the mythical stories at important rites of passage, such as births and deaths for their clan patrons. The Tothis speak a Dravidian language, and the Pradhans speak a Marathi language. Traditionally they relied on annual ‘jajmaan‘ payments, though recently they have become agriculturalist, as their bardic skills are less in demand.
Street theatre, Dandari Kelk, Ramayana
The Raj Gonds love performing elaborate theatricals, ‘kelk‘, to entertain villagers on festival days. This is a masculine activity, young boys and ‘hijra‘ or ‘ali‘, transgender people, take on the female roles. The villagers of Guddipet have a great annual tradition of performing the Hindu epic of the Ramayana. During the Dandari festival villagers perform light-hearted skits that mock the accepted social values. This is a festival when normative behaviour is challenged.